Thoughts by the doc...

Hello... hows it been going? 

I have to be sincere.. I planned to write after a while but couldnot stop. The green tea gave me another thought, I being an allopathic doctor, drinking green herbal tea? whoa.. am I even allowed? hehehhe...

Healing has a huge impact on our lives. Some injuries are apparent.. you can see them with naked eye or diagnose others with scans and tests. What about the injuries of the mind, the soul and the heart.? How do you grade heartache, how does one grade jealousy, whats the intensity of hurt when someone cheats you or when someone says painful things to you ? What about the pain of loss... 

I have observed, it may seem that the wound will never heal. But as they say.. time is a great healer. Its true. With time, intensity of the hurt decreases. Time passes and we learn to live with the pain which then tends to fade away slowly. Ofcourse it always resurfaces at those moments when memory cells remind us of our loss...

And time provides us with distractions, it gives us new memories, sometimes good other times bad even... You prioritise to solve your problem in hand and forget your sadness for sometime. Nevertheless as they say life goes on... 

Whenever you have a strong feeling -- be it hurt, jealousy, pain, anger, complain about circumstances , always wait. Time weaves its magic and then hopefully you will be healed. 

It took me time to learn this, to understand this. Its not easy, I never said it would be. Sometimes it hurts too much, revenge seems the only option.. but thats where I guess we, good humans should go the extra mile to remain so and keep the innocence of our souls alive... 

All right then. See you another time. Till then take tea ...  green tea.. au revoire